I feel left out and like no one wants me around?

Ditch the blonde bimbos if all they talk about is getting drunk or sucking some dude up because I gauruntee that if you break this friendship it will only come to your benefit in time. Find newer friends to be around, ones that will make you feel good about yourself. As for the family matters, talk to them and let them know what's up, they'll listen when you're heard because they only want what's best for you. But WATCH in 3-8 years those girls will be worthless alcoholics.